"If there wasn't anything, there wouldn't be anything," my brother said to me.
Such a deep thought for a young boy.
It sounds pretty simple, but it is very complicated.
You see...if there wasn't a brother, I wouldn't be sister.
Part of who I am is because of my brother.
When I felt weak, like I couldn't face something, he always shined the light on my strengths.
He helped me to see that I am a strong, smart, and courageous woman.
When I felt sad, he would say something hilarious and make me laugh.
He helped me to see sadness is a part of life, but you don't have to dwell on it.
When I did not want to face something, he held my hand.
He showed me that sometimes you need a united front.
We came from the same seed, but are unique...each holds something special.
We complement each other...always have, always will.
Just like salt and pepper, each has their own unique taste,
but you always see them together...
Because that is how it is supposed to be.
My little brother was 11 months younger than me. My almost twin, I called him. In 2014 he was hit by an oilfield dump truck. That day he took a piece of me with him. My brother always told me...
My Brother Is Always By My Side
Published by Family Friend Poems February 2009 with permission of the Author.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I have a similar situation, but it was my dad. He died when I was 3 in a car crash.