She never got to dance
Or go to her own prom.
She never got the chance
To forget where she came from.
She never got to kiss,
A man she idolized.
She never felt love's bliss,
'Cause she was paralyzed.
She never got to talk
About love with a smile.
She never got to walk
Down a church's aisle.
She never got to say
Those precious words, "I Do."
But she was far and away
The strongest girl I ever knew.
She couldn't brush her hair
Or put make up on her face.
She couldn't hold you dear
Or give you a warm embrace.
She couldn't clasp her hands
As if in the form of prayer.
She couldn't understand
Why she was in a wheelchair.
She never showed her fears
Or let you hear her cries.
She never showed the tears
That fell down from her eyes.
She never looked for pity
Or sympathy from you.
That's why she'll always be
The strongest girl I ever knew.
Inspirational Poem About Disabled Sister
The poem was very touching. I enjoyed reading it, and it reminds me of someone I know and is part of my life. She is none other than my sister. She was always on her feet doing things just...
The Strongest Girl I Ever Knew
Published by Family Friend Poems January 2009 with permission of the Author.
Interview with Top Poet Ronald Doe
- What makes this poem one of your favorites?
This poem is very special to me because it was a memorial poem to my sister, Kelly. Kelly was a quadriplegic for 26 years as the result of a diving accident when she was 16. Kelly died on December 22, 2003. - What important life lessons did you learn from your sister?
One of the lessons I learned from Kelly is that you make the best of the hand you’re dealt. Kelly was obviously dealt a bad hand at 16 years old, but she lived her life to the fullest, and if she cried about her situation, it was at night when she was alone. - You write about a variety of topics. Where do you find your inspiration, and do you have a favorite topic to write about?
Being an alcoholic and addict in long-term recovery, my favorite topic is to write about God/Jesus and the gift of sobriety. I obviously get my inspiration and my God-given talent to write poetry from Him. I also get my inspirations from the many miracles I have witnessed in recovery. The turnarounds recovering alcoholics/addicts make in recovery is nothing short of miraculous. I know this is a fact because I am one of them. - What is your favorite experience that has resulted from being published on Family Friend Poems?
One of my favorite experiences was to be connected to fellow poets all over the world. To be able to read their works was amazing. Also, when I googled “The Strongest Girl I Ever Knew” and saw at least eight different videos and two different songs, I was blown away. It was like Kelly was still touching people from Heaven. Also, there were three instances where amateur musicians asked my permission to use my poems/lyrics in songs, and they came out beautiful. Quite humbling to say the least.
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I, too, know how about suffering. I was born with cerebral palsy. I've had so many surgeries I can't count them. I'm learning to trust in Jesus more and more as each day goes by. I know turning to Him is the only way to go.