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The poem is something that came to me about 6 months after my sister's sudden death. I found her dead on her bedroom floor when I went in to change her bandages from a recent surgery. A blood clot from that surgery is what killed her. The poem tells my journey through grief - from the initial disbelief to the final acceptance. There is not a day that goes by that I don't miss my best friend.

Missing My Sister

©  Belinda Stotler
One morning I found you in eternal sleep;
I tried to wake you as I began to weep,
But all my pleas you could not hear;
Oh if I could have only kept you near,
Away from the voices of those who went before,
Who beckoned you to come to that distant shore.

I find it so very hard to believe
That you have gone and I must grieve;
I call out your name -- you answer not,
And I look for you in every familiar spot.
Everything seems so strange and surreal,
I ask everyday is it a dream or real?

Where are the soft brown eyes of affection?
Where is the laughter and talk of childhood reflection?
Where is the loving care when I was sick or sad?
Where is the generous soul for which I was glad?
Where is the forgiving and understanding heart?
Where are the bonds that were there from the start?

I miss all the little ways you showed you cared,
For there were so many good moments we shared;
Looking back on my life’s assorted scenes,
I realized you taught me what love truly means;
You were my trusted confidante and best friend,
On whose loving support I could always depend.

I look at your smiling face in all my photos;
Memories flood my mind as I touch the mementos
From the happy times you and I have had,
But now these bring tears and make me sad;
For the time together went by in a wink,
Life was not as long as we’d like to think.

Sometimes memories bring comfort and make me smile,
But there are times when grief takes over for a while;
Friends offer gentle words and prayers to console,
And tell me what has happened to your loving soul;
Can it be true what they say of time healing grief?
Is it enough when they say death has given you relief?

Can we believe what others say of a better place,
Where our beloved ones rest in God’s warm embrace?
I should be happy you’re free of pain and sorrow,
And rejoice that you’ll always have tomorrow.
How can I then be so heartbroken and selfishly cry,
Return to me from that peaceful place where you lie!”

Now I look down at your name on a cold hard stone
That says little of the loving light you have shone;
It tells nothing of the wonderful person you were,
And only serves to remind me of the painful loss I endure;
But I know your kind soul wants no tears or pain,
Instead you’d want warm memories and love to remain.

Although I cry and stand grief-stricken by your grave,
I promise not to forget the loving memories you gave;
But still I miss you so very much my sister dear,
And your caring words I once again long to hear;
My heart’s only solace is one day I will see you as before,
Beckoning me to come join you on that white distant shore.


Missing My Sister by Belinda Stotler @FamilyFriendPoems

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Published: 8/14/2008

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This poem made me cry so bad. I lost my 23 yr old sister 2 months ago and it is still so hard to understand. This is such a beautiful poem and I thank you for writing it.

Mandy Posted on Wednesday, October 08, 2008

Hello, my name is Samantha. My sister died 9 years ago when we were five years old...
she died due to kidney problems
she was everything to me
her long black hair
brown eyes
she was my older twin sis
older by 7 minutes
I miss her so much
I cried for months
it's been nine years since then

and starting a week ago... i can't get her out of my head
she won't leave
i try to get my mind off of the topic for a minute or 2
but she keeps coming back...
is she trying to tell me something
Lacey... my dear sister.... i love her so much... i wish she was here with me... life would be so much easier

Samantha Posted on Monday, July 27, 2009

This poem touched me dearly. I lost my sister and I was trying to find a poem in memory of her. Beautiful!

julia reeves Posted on Thursday, July 30, 2009

This poem is so nice ! it made me cry so hard ! you have a strong heart to write a poem like that , because when I lost my grandpa and grandma I couldn't talk about it ! may she rest in peace

alia Posted on Tuesday, August 11, 2009

I lost my sister in-law on 16/08/09, and the poem is so lovely. I am sure to send a copy of this poem to her sister, who still cries everytime I see her. Does it ever get better? She was still so young and it came without warning

Martie Posted on Thursday, September 17, 2009

I lost my beautiful baby sister on 3rd of June 09 and was looking for a poem for her. I have found it here in yours I admire your strength to write such heartache and I will be forever grateful that you have wrote such a beautiful poem I will be using it on my baby sisters memorial and hope you don't mind but every thing I wanted to say but didn't know how is all here in your poem. thank you so very much you and your family will be forever in my heart xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

shelly Posted on Tuesday, October 27, 2009

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